tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post4337935112095724319..comments2023-11-03T04:58:51.135-04:00Comments on Tori's Path: Advice?Torihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17708831821772211605noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-83882731677931456522010-01-30T07:43:07.347-05:002010-01-30T07:43:07.347-05:00I say: think it over and if you really know what y...I say: think it over and if you really know what you want, then go for it! If you end up regretting things in the end, at least you know you tried rather than regretting it knowing you did nothing. That's even worse. <br /><br />I hope this helps~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-45514649491904310412010-01-27T17:25:52.662-05:002010-01-27T17:25:52.662-05:00Do you know for sure you'll regret it? I'...Do you know for sure you'll regret it? I'm all about instant gratification, but if I know the regret will be deep after (and not just 100 calories on my hips or a hangover) then I rethink why I want this so much.<br /><br />You need to know that what you get out of something will be worth the hurt later. Unfortunately it's hard to tell. Sometimes it's "ouch - that didn't go well." And sometimes it's earth-shattering regret.<br /><br />Take some time to think it through - and do try and talk to that teacher if you think you can.Ruehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09521209734809361226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-26462296995009696222010-01-26T18:13:29.878-05:002010-01-26T18:13:29.878-05:00It really depends what the specific situation is f...It really depends what the specific situation is for me. But I understand you might not want to talk about that, so... I would say that if you suspect that it goes against what you think is right, don't do it. I do things I know I shouldn't be doing all the time and the regret is awful. Once you've done it, you can't take it back. I definitely think you need to talk to someone close to you about the specific problem though!Emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11610096106943600960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-91334528298355836122010-01-26T15:00:06.172-05:002010-01-26T15:00:06.172-05:00I always follow my gut. It will and may already be...I always follow my gut. It will and may already be telling you what to do. When I ignore my gut, that's when it all goes wrong for me.Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-72809817342113224462010-01-26T11:26:10.418-05:002010-01-26T11:26:10.418-05:00If you sense a hesitation, if you sense that this ...If you sense a hesitation, if you sense that this (whatever it is) it might be a mistake, then wait. Your internal voice never lies. The one time I didn't listen to that voice of hesitation I made a big mistake and now live with deep regret. I never believed in regret until I did not listen to that voice. That is my advice Tori, if it is not something you know for sure you want then maybe it is not a good idea.Suzie Ridlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08603343663483772145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-90788540785193431712010-01-25T20:04:56.325-05:002010-01-25T20:04:56.325-05:00i tend to live day by day and deal with regrets as...i tend to live day by day and deal with regrets as they come. everybody has their own set of regrets, what's important is that you don't let them bog you down and completely consume you. you know?<br /><br />this is amy by the way, and i'm always willing to listen and talk. just call/text/send me a note on facebook/twitter, whatever! even if i'm not exactly the best advice giver ever, sometimes just talking something out can help out. at least, it does for me. :)amycooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00846314673929752559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8722980615060976695.post-32048899388094812282010-01-25T18:56:52.358-05:002010-01-25T18:56:52.358-05:00Honestly? I'm all about living in the moment....Honestly? I'm all about living in the moment. And something I always try to remember, sometimes what's "right" does hurt. <br /><br />I know that's probably not a lot of help, but I tend to do things from the gut, instinctively. <br /><br />Good luck, love.<br /><br />)O(<br />booBridgetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04844738855874754351noreply@blogger.com